前段時間，賽琳娜·戈麥斯（Selena Gomez）與制作人男友本尼·布蘭科（Benny Blanco）在加州舉行了一場浪漫婚禮，星光熠熠，好友“霉霉”泰勒·斯威夫特、艾德·希蘭等一眾圈中摯友悉數(shù)到場，星光熠熠。

不過，粉絲的眼睛一向犀利——他們很快發(fā)現(xiàn)，這場盛大的婚禮上，曾為賽琳娜捐腎的摯友，美國女演員弗朗西婭·萊莎（Francia Raisa）并未現(xiàn)身，也不在嘉賓名單中。當天，萊莎在個人社交平臺上發(fā)布了一個跳舞視頻，更是被作為她沒有出席婚禮的證據(jù)。

這個細節(jié)瞬間引發(fā)熱議，不少網(wǎng)友猜測：兩人曾經轟動一時的姐妹情，是否真的“涼了”？

'So you were not invited to the wedding?' theorized one user.

有網(wǎng)友猜測道：“所以你是沒被邀請去婚禮嗎？”

'Not what I'd be expecting you to do be doing on September 27, 2025,' wrote another.

另一位寫道：“這可不是我想象中你會在2025年9月27日做的事。”

'This is the woman who saved the life of her best friend but in return she wasn't invited in her best friend's happiest day,' scathed someone else. 。”

還有人諷刺道：“她可是救過閨蜜一命的人，結果閨蜜結婚這天，她卻連賓客名單都沒上?！?/p>

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Raisa and Gomez first crossed paths a decade ago when they were young stars on Secret Life of the American Teenager and Wizards of Waverly Place, respectively.

弗朗西婭·萊莎和賽琳娜·戈麥斯初識于十多年前，當時她們還都是初出茅廬的青春偶像，分別出演了《青春密語》與《少年魔法師》。

Raisa donated akidneyto Gomez in 2017 after the Spring Breakers star was diagnosed withlupus.

2017年，賽琳娜·戈麥斯因患上紅斑狼瘡，需要進行腎臟移植手術，弗朗西婭·萊莎決定捐出自己的腎臟，幫助賽琳娜渡過難關。

Sufferers of the disease have hyperactiveimmune systemsthat can attack their healthy tissues and organs, .
紅斑狼瘡是一種自身免疫性疾病，患者的免疫系統(tǒng)會異?；钴S，錯誤地攻擊身體健康的組織和器官。

Raisa recalled the warning that a social worker gave her before the surgery.'It’s going to be hard, the recipient is going to glow and she’s going to recover a lot faster than the donor because she’s getting something she needs and you are losing something you don’t need to lose. It’s going to be hard,' she recalled being told in an interview with SELF.

萊莎回憶起手術前一位社工對她的告誡："這會非常艱難，接受者將容光煥發(fā)，她的恢復速度會遠快于捐贈者——因為她獲得了急需的東西，而你卻失去了本不必失去的東西。整個過程將會非常艱難。"她在接受《悅己》雜志采訪時這樣回憶道。

'And it was hard,' Raisa continued, adding, 'Selena and I both went through a depression.'Raisa also raised her shirt and lowered her pants to reveal a mark resembling a 'C-section' scar, as well as smaller scars higher on her stomach.

事實也確實如此，"萊莎繼續(xù)說道，并補充說，"賽琳娜和我都經歷了抑郁期。"她還撩起上衣，褪下褲腰，展示了一道類似"剖腹產"的疤痕，以及腹部上方的幾處較小疤痕。

In the same interview, Raisa mentioned that it was Gomez who informed her that she was a match for the kidney donation, rather than doctors, which led some fans to worry that she may have felt pressured to agree to the donation.

在同一訪談中，萊莎透露當初是賽琳娜而不是醫(yī)生告訴她“腎源匹配成功”的消息。這一細節(jié)讓部分粉絲擔心，萊莎或許是在某種心理壓力下才同意捐獻。

In 2022, the pair were rumored to be feuding after Gomez said in a Rolling Stone interview that 'My only friend in the industry really is Taylor [Swift], so I remember feeling like I didn’t belong.'

2022年，當賽琳娜接受《滾石》專訪時表示"娛樂圈里我真正的朋友只有泰勒·斯威夫特，那種格格不入的感覺至今記憶猶新"。

'Interesting,' Raisa wrote in a since-deleted comment on a post about the quotation. In response to Raisa's comment, Gomez replied, 'Sorry I didn't mention every person I know.'

萊莎隨即在某條相關內容下留言"有意思啊"（該評論現(xiàn)已刪除），引發(fā)兩人不和的傳聞。對此賽琳娜曾回應："很抱歉沒能提及我認識的每一個人。"

中間還有一個小插曲，有媒體報道賽琳娜術后疑似開始喝酒抽煙，完全不珍惜她的新腎臟，讓萊莎很不滿。2023年，萊莎承認兩人關系疏遠，但仍然是朋友。

如今，賽琳娜大婚，萊莎沒有出現(xiàn)在嘉賓名單中，再次引發(fā)了大眾對兩人關系的猜測。不過這一次，萊莎親自出來回應了……

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“I know she’s getting married,” Francia told Univision’s Primer Impacto in a clip shared to Instagram ahead of thenuptials, “and I’m very happy for her.”

萊莎在接受Univision節(jié)目《Primer Impacto》采訪時說道：“我知道她要結婚了，真心為她感到高興”，該片段在賽琳娜婚禮前被分享在Instagram上。

“Look—she has a life,” Francia explained. “And she is already a billionaire, and I am grateful that I could do that for her.”

"你看，她現(xiàn)在有自己的生活，"萊莎接著解釋說，"而且她現(xiàn)在已經是億萬富翁了，我很感激自己能為她做那些事。”

She added, "From the beginning, the doctors told me it’s a donation. If you’re going to donate a dollar to St. Jude or somewhere else, you’re not going to call to say, ‘Hey, what are you doing with my dollar?’ It’s a donation and it’s something nice that I was able to do. I am grateful that I am alive, and I can say that I have saved a life."

她補充道：“一開始醫(yī)生就告訴我，這是一次捐贈。如果你捐一美元給圣猶達醫(yī)院或其他地方，你不會打電話去問：‘嘿，我那一美元你拿去干什么了？’ 捐贈就是捐贈——這是一件我能做到的善事。我很感激自己現(xiàn)在還活著，也能驕傲地說，我救過一個人的命。”

至于之前傳言，萊莎因為賽琳娜抽煙而很生氣，甚至找她對峙，萊莎也否認了這件事情。

"When that rumor came out that I had gotten angry or something like that because [Selena] was smoking, I wasn’t aware of those rumors."

“關于此前傳出我因賽琳娜吸煙而生氣的傳聞，我本人當時并不知情。”

She added, "What you’re asking me are rumors. No one knows what’s going on, and neither she nor I are talking about it. One day, maybe we will address it."

她繼續(xù)說道：“你問我的這些都是謠言。沒人知道到底發(fā)生了什么，我和她也都沒有公開談過。也許將來有一天，我們會回應這一切?！?/p>

從當年一起經歷生死，到后來漸行漸遠，再到如今社交媒體上客氣體面的祝福與回應，萊莎依然沒有出現(xiàn)在賽琳娜的婚禮上。看到這里，還是忍不住有點唏噓。

時間在走，人也在變。正如萊莎自己說的那句話：“People grow, relationships change”。有時候，曾經的生死之交，也會慢慢變成生活中的過客。不是不再重要了，只是人生這場長途旅行里，同行的路，總有分岔的那一刻。

重點詞匯速記

kidney/?k?dni/ n. 腎臟
lupus/?lu?p?s/ n. 紅斑狼瘡
immune system/??mju?n ?s?st?m/ n. 免疫系統(tǒng)
C-section/?si ?sek??n/ n. 剖腹產
nuptial/?n?p??l/ adj. 婚禮的；婚姻的

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