在東北老家，我年少時(shí)總羨慕姐姐有新鞋新衣，埋怨媽媽偏心，長大后遠(yuǎn)讀、成家、生娃，才慢慢理解母親不易，姐姐遠(yuǎn)嫁四川，我把爸媽接到身邊過日子。

小時(shí)候最容易把偏愛看得太重，一點(diǎn)小事就往心里去。那年我十五歲，姐姐拿到一雙新高跟鞋，在屋里走得咔咔響，我躲在一邊又氣又羨慕。覺得媽媽眼里只有姐姐，連話都不想跟媽媽多說，現(xiàn)在回想起來，只覺得那時(shí)太不懂事。

我們總在長大后，才看懂父母的不容易。那時(shí)候以為媽媽偏心，其實(shí)她只是在能力范圍內(nèi)，盡量給每個(gè)孩子一點(diǎn)歡喜。等我離開家去上大學(xué)，每次打電話，媽媽都反復(fù)叮囑吃好穿暖，我才慢慢明白，她的愛從來都藏在細(xì)碎的關(guān)心里。

人總是要走遠(yuǎn)一點(diǎn)，才懂家的分量。大學(xué)在外，一個(gè)人吃飯、上課、處理麻煩事，才知道家里有人惦記有多溫暖。以前在家覺得嘮叨，出門在外才發(fā)現(xiàn)，有人天天問你冷不冷、餓不餓，是這輩子最踏實(shí)的幸福。

等自己當(dāng)了媽媽，才真正體會(huì)“媽媽”兩個(gè)字的重量。半夜起來哄孩子、做飯洗衣、操心大小事，一天下來累得不想說話。那一刻突然就懂了，當(dāng)年媽媽也是這樣，一邊辛苦持家，一邊努力顧著我們姐妹倆。

生活里很多誤會(huì)，都是因?yàn)檎镜锰?、看得太淺。公交上見過不少孩子跟媽媽鬧脾氣，就為一點(diǎn)小事不依不饒，像極了當(dāng)年的我。其實(shí)父母哪有那么多偏心，不過是能力有限，只能一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)把好分給孩子。

我們總在年少時(shí)任性，在成年后后悔。菜場里?？吹脚畠号阒鴭寢屄舨耍p聲細(xì)語說話，我就覺得特別暖心。別等父母老了才懂得體諒，能好好說話的時(shí)候，就別冷著臉讓他們難過。

第一，多跟父母聊聊天，別把壞情緒留給家人。每天抽幾分鐘，問問他們身體怎么樣、吃得好不好，簡單幾句話，就能讓老人心里特別暖和。

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第二，學(xué)會(huì)換位思考，別再揪著過去的小事不放。父母也不是完人，他們已經(jīng)在當(dāng)時(shí)的日子里，盡力給了我們最好的，多一分理解，就少一分遺憾。

第三，多抽時(shí)間陪陪父母，能接在身邊就多照顧。年紀(jì)越大，老人越盼著孩子在跟前，一頓家常飯、一次閑聊天，比什么禮物都讓他們開心。

年少不懂父母恩，懂時(shí)已是中年人。在東北長大的我，終于明白媽媽的不易。愿我們都能少點(diǎn)任性，多點(diǎn)耐心，好好善待身邊最親的人。